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What went wrong?
There's nothing more exciting than meeting a man at a club or bar who seems totally into us from the moment we set eyes on him. In our heads, this guy seems like Prince Charming himself – tall, dark and handsome with a great sense of humor to boot. Why wouldn't it work out between us? But why do so many promising dates end in disaster? The answer lies in how men view dating in general .
To most men, going out on a date is a chore. It's something that they have to do in order to get sex from you, while going out with their friends and playing pool or watching football is fun. To make this clear, think about the last time you saw your guy friends. Didn't they usually take a long time getting ready to go out? They took hours doing their hair and make up before they left the house, didn't they? Weren't they wearing clothes that made them look really good? Now imagine how much effort he puts into looking nice when he goes on a date with you.
Most guys don't put in such an effort because if the date doesn't work out, then it doesn't matter whether or not we looked our best for it. We'd rather spend an hour playing pool and drinking with our friends than put in that kind of effort for a date that might not work out.
To most men, the end goal of a date is sex. That's what we're trying to accomplish when we ask you out on one. This means dates can get really frustrating if they don't work out quickly because he hasn't gotten what he wanted from them yet . If it takes too long for him to get what he wants, then he'll get bored and uninterested, which will inevitably lead to him avoiding you altogether . Of course, there are many men who don't think this way and will want to take their time dating you, but these guys usually aren't your